Stories From Rome

Joe Dougherty

Rome made my whole class close in spring of 2014. Not necessarily emotionally, but more physically.

We were all living on one (beautiful) hillside, all eating from the same (renowned) kitchen, and all travelling in the same (cramped) buses. It was hard to get left behind the way you can in a larger setting--we had every opportunity to do things together, and were never far from our classmates.

The poor devils. Living like that means you can’t get away. Someone with the courage to be vicious could have a field day with what you can learn about people; for my part, I looked into lighter mischief. A neighbor and I barricaded someone’s door with furniture—simple enough. I left fresh whole squid in choice locations such as a common area and a friend’s bathroom. A toilet bowl got filled with shaving cream. But creme de la creme, I got a picture of our chief RA balancing on a precipice in Nafplion—a major violation and good for blackmail! Now, he had just served me a citation for drunken and disorderly conduct for my performance in Othello (we’ll never know if it was an act), and I had found leverage.

But there was pushback. I had to clean the very stink of squid out of that bathroom, which was really not easy. I had a close shave with karma in the shower, when my tranquility was interrupted by a Frisbee loaded with Barbasol being dumped into the stall. And this RA was not be be taken down: I slipped my incriminating photo into the office with a message that they should drop the charge against me or pass the photo to the Director. Later, I got a reply: “Next time, check who’s on duty before you try to blackmail him.” But then he shared with us his own pranktious exploits, and all was joy.

— Joe Dougherty
   Rome, Spring 2014

Wendy Reimann

My Rome semester was full of miracles, one of which continues to shape my view of the world to this day.

I ended my ten-day excursion a few days early in Germany. I parted with my travel companions and boarded a train to the Frankfurt airport, where I planned to fly back to Rome. Little did I know Frankfurt has two airports, only one of which flies to Rome. I did not take the right train. I was alone, at the wrong airport, night was falling, and every taxicab, bus, and train had left. I had no phone and I felt panicked. I sprinted down an escalator saying Hail Mary’s over and over. I am not sure what I was praying for at the time, but Jesus sent me a bus carrying the German associated press. Seeing my distress, a man from the bus approached me and offered a ride. He spoke clear English and showed me his press badge.

After negotiating a € 100 fee with the perturbed driver, I had a seat in the back with my new reporter friend. They drove me all the way to the other airport. You may think that was the miracle, but it wasn’t. Yes, Mary had pleaded with her son to get me back to Italy, but she had sent me so much more. The reporter’s name was Andy. He chatted with me about my travels, American politics, and Germany’s future. Most significantly, he thanked me for ending WWII and saving the soul of Germany. I cried. I had no part in saving Germany from Hitler, but he shook my hand, and with a trembling voice literally thanked me for stopping a dictator. It was a quintessential moment in my education. That moment was the reason we travel to Rome, to understand our place in Western Civilization from the dawn of time to the present as both human and American. To this day, I am friends with Andy on Facebook. We are both writers now and we are both so grateful for each other’s place in our shared histories.

— Wendy (Briones) Reimann
   Rome, Fall 2004

Andrew Gochuico

For my third long weekend, I went to Bucharest, Romania. As soon as we arrived at the airport, one of my friends took us all aside and warned us to watch out for pickpockets because Romania is known for petty theft. Even though my friend had told us that, I was still shocked when one of us got pickpocketed the next day.

What had happened was we were all walking in a sort of circle formation (I was in the back of the circle) after buying pretzels when I suddenly noticed a woman in the middle of the group. She put her hand into my friend Sarah’s coat pocket and pulled out Sarah’s blue cell phone. It all happened so fast and I was so shocked that I froze and just watched the woman walk away. My friends were way ahead of me and I didn’t want the woman to get away so I decided to follow her. I went up to her and said, “That’s my friend’s phone. Give it back.” She ignored me and kept walking. I repeated myself, but stuck out my hand this time, hoping that would prompt her to give it to me. The woman said something in Romanian and slapped my hand away. I looked around at the people walking by and said, “Help! She has my friend’s phone!” but I was either too quiet or the people couldn’t understand what I was saying.

Right as the woman started to cross the street, my friends found me. “Sarah! That woman has your phone and she’s crossing the street,” I said worriedly. Sarah immediately ran after the woman, followed by my other friend Maria. They were both yelling at her to come back and give back the phone. They crossed the street, narrowly dodging cars, and caught up to the woman on the other side of the street. Sarah grabbed the phone out of the woman’s hand and then, surprisingly, the woman gave Sarah tips on how to avoid getting pickpocketed. Luckily, that was the only experience we had with pickpockets that weekend.

— Andrew Gochuico
   Rome, Spring 2016

Fr. Thomas Esposito

A little church named Santo Stefano has been the standard Mass site for UD Romers in Assisi for decades. To reach the humble hut of unadorned bricks, students descend a steep flight of stairs carrying them away from the bustling pilgrim paths. Saint Francis himself might have visited this 12th century sanctuary; he would certainly consider its material poverty more conducive to prayer than the gloriously frescoed basilica housing his mortal remains nearby.

I was a sophomore named Bryan Esposito in the spring of 2003 when I visited Santo Stefano with my classmates. Our chaplain, Monsignor (now Bishop) Conley, celebrated Mass for us on a dark and cold February evening, and I recall standing in the back right corner of the cramped church as he exhorted us to imitate the sanctity and simplicity of Francis’ life. I had no suspicion at the time that the good Lord would grant me an unrequested gift: to return to Santo Stefano and share the experience with new UD friends from the other side of the altar.

Very few Romers have the privilege of returning to such formative and unforgettable places once their semester ends, and I am surely the most spoiled of all. In the fall of 2011, I entered Santo Stefano once again, now as a Cistercian priest named Father Thomas and the unofficial UD “travel chaplain.” The church appeared as I remembered it, and images of Monsignor Conley’s Mass rushed to mind as I approached the altar. During the simple liturgy, I kept looking out at my congregation of students, fascinated by the fact that I was in their shoes less than a decade ago.

My homily centered on the concept of a “thin place,” a physical or even emotional point at which the barrier between God and man, or Heaven and earth, is tangibly thinner, or more permeable, than other spots. Santo Stefano was an immensely consoling thin place for me as a student, and I rejoiced at the opportunity to share that same place and grace with new UD Romers as a chaplain.

— Fr. Thomas Esposito, O. Cist.
   Rome, Spring 2003