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The Red Folder helps faculty, staff, students, parents, and others who interact with students to recognize, respond effectively to, and refer distressed students to the support they need.
RECOGNIZE • RESPOND • REFER • RESOURCES
In addition to referring a student to resources, any sexual or gender-based harassment or assault requires mandated reporting. For questions regarding mandated reporting, please contact the Title IX Office at (972) 721-5056 or click below.
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USUALLY, A CHANGE IN PRESENTATION, UNLESS THERE ARE GENERAL SIGNS OF ONGOING DYSFUNCTION OR NOTICEABLE DISTRESS.
Learn more about each below the table.
ENCOURAGE appropriate professional help; if there are difficulties in scheduling, encourage students to contact support for assistance.
ENCOURAGE Wellness Map and other support strategies.
Report concerns to the Care Team: care@udallas.edu
Look for signs of concern (above).
MYTH - Asking someone about suicidality will "push" them towards suicidality. TRUTH - Discussing suicidality decreases suicidal ideation and decreases suicide risk (research).
It is better to be empathetically direct and clear with an individual you may be concerned is suicidal. Express your concerns and why you're worried about them. For example, you could say, "I've noticed [specific things], and I'm concerned about you. How are you feeling?" be specific: "Are you feeling like you want to hurt yourself?" If yes or no, still follow up with, "Have you been thinking about suicide or not being alive?" If they confirm these concerns, you may ask if they have a plan or not. This question is important to gauge how serious the concern is.
Be not afraid. If you are supportive, encouraging, and point to the resources needed, and follow the advice here, there is less chance of anything drastic happening.
DO know the available campus resources and the referral process.DO stay calm. Ensure your safety. Use a calm, non-confrontational approach.DO if safe, meet privately and always allow sufficient time to meet.DO if you decide not to have direct contact with the Student, refer the incident to BIT via the CARE Team.Contact the CARE team if the student has non-imminent concerns or acts in a non-threatening but concerning, bizarre, or highly irrational way.Contact 911 if a student expresses a direct threat to self or others, is acting in a violently oppositional way, or if the situation seems to be escalating.
Stay calm. Approach the individual and listen to their concerns with nonjudgmental empathy and appropriate concern. Remember that it is not your job to "Fix" the person or their problems but to be present to them and support them from where they are now to where they need to be next.
Talking to someone who is suicidal may be scary. Remember that we are here to support the individual of concern and you as you move through this concerning time. Don't feel like you are alone.
Validate their fears and concerns without confirming the facts or truths of future catastrophes. Examples: "I get that; that would be scary." "That may be true. I don't know about that, but I would be concerned about that, too."
Reassure them of support. It is important to maintain a sense of the concern's importance and that you are taking it seriously. Don't make any promises, but reassure them that everyone is focused on getting them the support they need to stop suffering and live a more flourishing life.
Don't promise to keep secrets about their safety and well-being or about what will or won't happen. If things happen despite your promises, it will damage your relationship.
DO listen through the anger. Use active listening and acknowledge the feelings of the individual. DO allow the person to vent and tell you what is upsetting to him/her. Use silence to allow the person to talk it out. DO set limits. Explain clearly and directly what behaviors are acceptable: “I will be willing to speak with you as soon as you lower your voice. ” DO be firm, steady, consistent, and honest. Clearly express your concerns, focusing on the behavior in non-disparaging terms.DO focus on what you can do to help resolve the situation.DO ask directly if the student wants to hurt him/herself or others. DO respect the student’s privacy without making false promises of confidentiality.
DO recommend services and provide direct referrals. Assist the Student in contacting resources.DO frame any decision to seek and accept help as an intelligent choice.DO make sure the Student understands what actions are necessary.DO encourage and assist student to make and keep an appointment and set a follow-up meeting with the studentDO make personal referrals. Contact the OSA about the student. Give the Name of an individual to whom you refer the student. Call ahead to brief the person in OSA.
DON’T transport those in imminent danger, even if they are walking from one building to another. Instead, call UDPD (972-265-5911) or 911 and wait for their response. DON’T be dismissive, condescending, or shaming.DON'T continue to argue a point if the person is becoming irrationally angry or violent.DON’T diagnose or give any prognosis.DON’T be afraid to ask direct questions. Asking about suicide or self-harm will not push someone over the edge, as these are usually cries for help. DON’T hurry the student out of your office, or just pass him or her off to someone else (expresses a lack of care)DON’T promise anything, as this can set up for a lack of trust if the promise can’t be kept, or possibly a defensiveness from the student.DON’T turn the conversation to you, or someone you know and their problems. Things like, “people have gotten through this difficulty before,” can be encouraging, but if it becomes the topic of the conversation, the student may feel dismissed.
CALL 911
CONTACT CARE TEAM care@udallas.edu
udallas-advocate.symplicity.com/public_report
FOR ONLINE INCIDENT REPORT, HAVE THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION AVAILABLE:
Your FULL Name (the person making the report) and Position/TitleYour contact information: phone extension/email addressLevel of Urgency (Emergency, Urgent, Concerning, etc. - to the best of your ability to assess)Behaviors observed (presented in concise, specific, objective language: Who, What, Where, When, Why, How) Date/Time of incident or observed behaviorsName of the Student of ConcernAny identifying information you may have access to – phone, email, student ID, Dorm/living accommodations.Names and identifying information of any other students, faculty, or staff involved.Supporting documentation (letters, emails, texts, notes, etc.) that you may have.Any other information that might be helpful to the CARE Team and BIT to address the concerns.