Community provides a sense of belonging and support allowing greater ability to cope
with life struggles.
Being part of a community provides a sense of belonging and emotional support and brings joy and fulfillment. This can be crucial during stress or crisis. Having people to talk to and share experiences with helps reduce feelings of isolation, homesickness, and loneliness. Participating in community activities and events introduces social engagement and provides opportunities for positive social interactions, which benefit mental health. Being part of a community also helps individuals feel connected to something larger than themselves, imbuing a sense of individual identity and social belonging that can enhance mental well-being. There are too many things going on around campus for us to put it all here. We'll point you in a few directions; it's up to you, however, to go and engage in community. That can be scary sometimes. Often, it's more frightening in our heads before it happens... then, when we have already mustered the courage to go and are out there enjoying ourselves, we look back and realize how much more easy it was than we first believed.
Click through the stack below to see some ways to engage with the community:
Connect with your community
Yeah, but...
OK, so a lot is happening around campus for students to engage with, feel connected to, and enjoy time within the community. However, some students find it challenging to connect with the community, whether this is due to anxiousness, depressiveness, phobias, a lack of confidence in social skills, avoidant tendencies, or other struggles. College students with these concerns often struggle to connect with the community in healthy ways, leading to the potential of engaging in harmful or unhelpful behaviors. These struggles can indeed affect students' academic performance and personal lives. The Wellness Map hopes to address social anxiety among college students and enhance their community engagement by connecting them to the appropriate level of care to address their needs. However, only some people must jump up to Steps 6 or above. Some just need help to move up to Step 3 and increase their skills to better connect with the community.
Some suggestions include promoting positive social media use to improve communication capacity, alleviate social anxiety, and lead to real-life, in-person connections (see connections to various student-engaged social media pages in the slider above). Implementing coping strategies programs has effectively reduced rejection sensitivity and social anxiety among college students, enhancing their psychosocial adaptation and interpersonal communication (more on this in Step 3). Additionally, improving family and friend connections has been identified as a mechanism to reduce social anxiety among college students, thereby boosting their psychological resilience, easing social anxiety, and deepening Purposeful Intentionality.
These challenges may pose significant difficulties for college students engaging with their community. By implementing interventions that focus on improving social skills, addressing unhelpful or harmful behaviors, promoting positive coping strategies, and strengthening support systems, colleges can help students overcome these struggles and actively participate more fully in community activities. This is what we will start to address when moving up the Steps.
PURPOSEFUL INTENTIONALITY
The first step, though, is to try. Pick one thing. Tell yourself to try that one thing. Maybe it will be great, perhaps it’ll just be OK, maybe it will suck, but at least you will have made a step towards having more social support. You may also glean important information that would be helpful for you to know- why it is that you struggle to connect socially. That gives us something to work with. This can help set your steps on more stable ground in the future. Be patient with yourself; you can do this, and we (your community) can help.
If you have information about why connecting is a struggle, you can try to develop the necessary skills (Step 3), talk to your peers and people of support (Step 4), or access additional resources (Steps 5+) to get you to the point where you feel comfortable and confident engaging with your community.
If you continually struggle to connect socially, maybe you need a little extra support. Please feel free to contact our Case Manager if you need more help.